Kabhie kushi kabhie ghum - A Rehash

Dont worry.. i wont summarize the movie here :)
But am not promising any less poignant stuff either......

Today morning I had scary dream...which made me think....
Sometime we dont realize how much we love our deared ones...
We are always after ambitions and goals..and when you look back
are you happy with what you achieved is an important question??

Think of man's life cycle nowadays..

your life is yours only till your 26-27...then you get married...
probably two years is all that you have for yourself after that...

With kids coming in....all your life revolves around your kids...
Your are more happy about your kid cracking the admission process of the best
school in city than the recent promotion that you got....

You are more happy about his school grades and marks thant you balanced scorecard
at office...and discussion with others just tend to be focussed arnd your kids..

Your life starts revolving around them...

I can go on and on..the kid is growing up..he is in his tenth, twelveth...
Engineering...

Suddenly you realize the kid is no longer one :)

His placements, Now the young hunk has his own goals....

you have put your life's investments into this kid who grew up playin in your hands....

And suddenly you realize he has no time left for you.. there is an occassional
sunday call that too only if there's no exam on monday.....

May be a weekday if he has really good news.....

You look back and you see nothing but the kid...and you are into twilight....

So this message is for the kids growing up....

Be ambitious in life..but don't lose sight of those who worked harder for you to be there...
Be there when they most need you.. in fact be there so that the need doesnt arise in the first place....

It good to achieve great things in life..but not being there for your parents is unpardonable.......In all try to give them one-fifth of the time you spend with your girl-friend...

Ok.. too much of senti stuff for the day..may be the impact of the bad dream..that made
me do this....